Most of us already have more than enough to handle just managing our daily lives. So, when we add the demands of the holiday season, it can be stressful and downright overwhelming. What was intended to be a time of joyfulness and celebration can become a real burden. And before we know it, not only are we unhappy but we make others around us unhappy too.
We’re reminded of a father who asked his son what he wanted as a holiday gift. To his surprise, the son responded, nothing! Don’t get me anything! The father asked why, and his son’s response surprised him. “I don’t want you to get me anything because all you do is to gripe and complain. You gripe about having to go shopping and not finding a parking space, about how far you had to walk to the mall entrance, about having to deal with all the shoppers and salespeople, about how much you had to spend, and on and on. I’d just prefer that you didn’t buy me anything then I won’t have to hear you complain.” “Am I really that bad,” the father asked. “Yes!” his son replied.
Remember that your thoughts, whether conscious or unconscious, determines your mood and what you do. Dwell on thinking negatively and you’re likely to have a miserable holiday season and you’ll probably spoil it for those around you. We’re certain that this is not your intent, so, you’ll need to check yourself.
One of the best ways to really enjoy the holidays is to maintain a positive mental attitude. Think positive and it will lift your mood and inspire those around you.
There is so much to enjoy during the holidays. Stay positive and take in and share it with others.
To your relationship success!
Jesse and Melva Johnson
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