Comments on: Marriage Separation Reconciliation Steps http://couplestransformations.com/marriage-separation-reconciliation-steps-2/ Michigan Marriage Counselors Jesse and Melva Johnson Tue, 31 Aug 2010 08:43:51 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Jesse & Melva Johnson http://couplestransformations.com/marriage-separation-reconciliation-steps-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1262 Jesse & Melva Johnson Tue, 09 Jun 2009 19:07:45 +0000 http://couplestransformations.com/?p=244#comment-1262 Dear Kate: We sincerely appreciate your comment. We agree that it is possible for couples to save their marriages and that desire, eagnerness, trust, understanding, respect, and love are all important aspects. From our experience, we have discovered that there are many couples who have those traits but who still have significant problems in their marriages. It is because they lack some very basic relationship skills. The most important of them is learning how to communicate effectively, how to contain their reactivity when they have conflicts, how to resolve conflicts successfully, how to ask for what you want in a way that is likely that you'll receive it, how to work together cooperatively as a married couple, etc. Married couples want to have successfuly marriages. They just don't know how. That's why the work that all of us do in helping couples is of such grave importance. Thanks again for your comment. Jesse and Melva Dear Kate:
We sincerely appreciate your comment. We agree that it is possible for couples to save their marriages and that desire, eagnerness, trust, understanding, respect, and love are all important aspects. From our experience, we have discovered that there are many couples who have those traits but who still have significant problems in their marriages. It is because they lack some very basic relationship skills. The most important of them is learning how to communicate effectively, how to contain their reactivity when they have conflicts, how to resolve conflicts successfully, how to ask for what you want in a way that is likely that you’ll receive it, how to work together cooperatively as a married couple, etc. Married couples want to have successfuly marriages. They just don’t know how. That’s why the work that all of us do in helping couples is of such grave importance. Thanks again for your comment.
Jesse and Melva

]]> By: kate http://couplestransformations.com/marriage-separation-reconciliation-steps-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1241 kate Fri, 05 Jun 2009 18:02:13 +0000 http://couplestransformations.com/?p=244#comment-1241 These are great advices for couples who are going through marriage crisis. It's nice to see couples who went through separation and was able to get back together and eventually was able to save their marriage. I think if you're really eager and if both of you really wants to <a href="http://www.savemymarriage.com" rel="nofollow">save your marriage</a>, you could do it. No matter how hard that is, even if you separate for a long time, if you really love each other, and feels like your life won't be complete without that half of your life.. you could save your marriage. It's just a matter of trust and understanding, and respect and love. <abbr><em>kates last blog post..<a href="http://yourrelationshipblog.wordpress.com/2009/06/01/easy-ways-on-how-to-save-a-marriage/" rel="nofollow">Easy Ways on How to Save A Marriage</a></abbr></em> These are great advices for couples who are going through marriage crisis. It’s nice to see couples who went through separation and was able to get back together and eventually was able to save their marriage. I think if you’re really eager and if both of you really wants to save your marriage, you could do it. No matter how hard that is, even if you separate for a long time, if you really love each other, and feels like your life won’t be complete without that half of your life.. you could save your marriage. It’s just a matter of trust and understanding, and respect and love.

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