Questions that couples often ask us when seeking marriage advice is “What went wrong?” “How did we get to this place?” “We didn’t start off this way?” Partners often feel hurt, sad, depressed, angry, deceived, and mislead. In the beginning of their relationship, things were wonderful. They had great fun, enjoyed being together, spent a lot of time talking, shared their life hopes and dreams, and believed that they had found their “soul mate.” Now, that they are together via marriage or deciding to live together, they don’t have much fun, they spend a lot of time blaming and criticizing each other, talk only when really necessary, their vision of what life would be together has been dashed, and their “soul mate” has become their “cold mate.”
We answer these questions in Chapter 1 of our book, Mining for Gold in Your Relationships.” Unfortunately, most couples don’t really understand the dynamics going on in their relationships when things begin to change. And, if you’re not aware of what’s happening, and don’t understand it, then, clearly, you won’t
know how to fix the problem.
Here’s the good news. You can learn a simple 5 step process for figuring out what’s going on in your relationship that has taken to from romance to rage. You can reclaim the relationship you thought you’d lost. You can have the relationship of your dreams. We invite you to learn the 5 steps by getting a copy of
our book “Mining for Gold in Your Relationships” on line available either as a hardbound copy, a downloadable voice CD, or as an eBook. The book is a lot cheaper than counseling, a divorce, or continuing to live with a lot of emotional distress. Purchase your copy today from our web site and start right away to rescue the love and rebuild your relationship.
To Your Relationship Success,
Jesse & Melva
