Increasingly, couples seek our marriage advice about how to deal with cheating. We know of nothing more devastating to a relationship than a partner who has broken their promise to remain faithful. While cheating is not limited to one sex, men still seem to cheat more often than women. Their responses are often quite different. Men tend to take the position, “it just happened. Let’s put it behind us and move on.” Women are hurt beyond words and struggle with deciding what to do or how to overcome their intense pain.
Michael and Simone, a couple who tell their story in our book, “Mining for Gold in Your Relationships,” wrestled with this issue in their marriage. While they enjoyed pleasant, enjoyable and even memorable moments, the infidelity was always there–just below the surface. Because of the infidelity, they found themselves trapped in a wake of emotional turmoil. They just couldn’t get past it.
Cheating does not necessary mean the end of a relationship. It has been given a horrendous blow and it takes a lot of hard work over time to overcome. It can be done. Those who are committed to doing the work often build stronger, more loving relationships than either imagined.
If infidelity has been a problem for you, we can help. We suggest that you start by learning our simple 5 step process for enabling you to really understand each other and the unconscious dynamics going on in your relationship. We invite you to learn the 5 steps by getting a copy of our book “Mining for Gold in Your Relationships” on line that’s available either as a hardbound copy, a downloadable voice CD, or as an eBook. The book is a lot cheaper than counseling, a divorce, or continuing to live with a lot of emotional distress. Purchase your copy today from our web site and start right away to rescue the love and rebuild your relationship.
To Your Relationship Success,
