http://couplestransformations.com/improve-marriage-working-together/ Michigan Marriage Counselors Jesse and Melva Johnson Tue, 13 Jul 2010 09:39:26 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 http://couplestransformations.com/improve-marriage-working-together/comment-page-1/#comment-3334 Kenny Ingram Tue, 23 Mar 2010 11:45:06 +0000 http://couplestransformations.com/?p=129#comment-3334 Thanks Jesse and Melva for your excellent advice. I believe the pursuit of winning is a surefire means to leave yourself open for losing. Why? Because ultimately, winning is impossible all of the time. Who can do it better? Who can do the most? Who can deliver quality and quantity? You shouldn’t be concerned over that, because you’re not your winnings or your victories. Marriage is about embracing the person as a whole package, and remembering that you don’t have to be competitive in your thoughts, and in the way you treat each other. There are no losers in a world where we all share the same energy source. Let go of the need to win by not agreeing that the opposite of winning is losing. <br>God Bless You. Thanks Jesse and Melva for your excellent advice. I believe the pursuit of winning is a surefire means to leave yourself open for losing. Why? Because ultimately, winning is impossible all of the time. Who can do it better? Who can do the most? Who can deliver quality and quantity? You shouldn’t be concerned over that, because you’re not your winnings or your victories. Marriage is about embracing the person as a whole package, and remembering that you don’t have to be competitive in your thoughts, and in the way you treat each other. There are no losers in a world where we all share the same energy source. Let go of the need to win by not agreeing that the opposite of winning is losing.
God Bless You.

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