Comments on: Extra Marital Affairs – The Serial Cheater

By: Jane

Jane — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 09:39:26 +0000

Thanks Neo, you are so right, yet it has been three months and he is still living with her, and a great part of me regrets throwing him out and leaving his things at her apt. He is building a life with her, yet, continues to tell me he loves me and misses me and wants me almost everyday. He says he doesnt love her, but is making no effort to get a place of his own. I wonder if, other than with me, will he cheat on her, the way he did with me, constant and disrespectfully. Or do you think he will become faithful to her eventually now that he is in his forties and she can provide him with the comforts of finanacial freedom, which we never had. Do serial cheaters change as they grow older and find the comforts of things that stressed them with their wives, or will the grass turn brown as always in the past.

By: Neo

Neo — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 10:46:07 +0000

Hi, i can relate to your story i've been with my current fiance for 8 years now and he is also one, at first i thought he was just possesive of me but i came to realize that he was paranoid always thinking that im the one who is cheating while all along he was. I am now at a stage where im preparing myself for an exit in the relationship because i owe it to myself to do so. i want to be happy, i know who i am as a woman and i know that God does not want such nonsence in our lives. that man is playing with your mind he is just after the idea of having a wife but not brave enough to be a husband, just let him go and rather persue a relationship with God and with yourself. even if he was married to another person he would still be a serial cheater and unfortunately they are not interested in rehabilitation

By: jane

jane — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 08:27:21 +0000

I was married to a serial cheater who had been having an affair for the past three years, several in between, and has cheated on me for over twenty years, Last week i threw him out and yes i am relieved a little, yet, i am sick i dumped his things at her apt. she feels she has won, its killing me to know he is with her now, but i just want to know, if he is so happy with her why is he telling me he misses me and hes unhappy with her, just mind games? is it possible he will continue to be a serial cheater with her too? please someone tell me he will do the same to her.

By: pammie44

pammie44 — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 17:54:02 +0000

I am married to a serial cheater. I just found that he has had an on again off again affair for three years with one woman and several affairs in between. We have been married for nine years. He has never been faithful. We were previously married for ten years–divorced him for cheating–remarried him after a year. He had not changes. I need to get out. He is a liar and a manipulator…HELP!

By: jessejohnson

jessejohnson — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 18:44:12 +0000

Our hearts are touched by your story and the new awareness that your husband has been a serial cheater. That’s the sad and painful part. But there is also another part. That is, now that you are aware you can (1) think about what you want to do, (2) make some self supportive decisions about what you need to do to address your fears and (3) start creating the kind of life you desire. We want to encourage you to look toward your future and not the mistakes of the past. We sincerely wish you well. Keep us posted regarding your progress. We’d like to hear from you.
Jesse & Melva