If you’re a man who believes that putting in grueling hours at work and doing a few outside chores around the house is enough and that your mate should be happy, the chances are that she’s not–at least not entirely. You’re probably wondering why. It’s because in general, many of us, as men, tend to focus on our jobs as the most important thing we need do to take care of our spouses and families. And while bringing home a pay check is important, it’s not the only thing they need from us.
If you’re a woman who believes that working hard either outside or inside the house or both–taking care of the kids and doing a mountain of household chores is enough and that your mate should be happy, the chances are he’s not–at least not entirely. You’re probably also wondering why. It’s because by the time you take care of the kids and multi-task all the things you have to do you’re exhausted. You’re so tired at the end of the day there’s little, if any, real quality time for your man.
We’re suggesting that it is good for you, your relationship, and your family to balance your work and your marriage. When you live at the extremes by pushing yourself beyond what is humanly reasonable, one way or the other you will pay a significant price. And one way you’ll pay is in the quality of your relationship.
We encourage you to demonstrate your commitment to each other by taking quality time for each other. When you make the commitment to live your lives in greater balance and devote more quality time to your relationship. It will have a profound impact on your connection and you’ll be surprised how much life will seem to get easier and more fulfilling.
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Here’s to your relationship success!
Jesse and Melva
