Jesse and Melva Johnson

Marriage Counselors : Imago Relationship Therapists


Marriage Counselors J&M Johnson

Hello, we are Jesse Johnson and Melva Johnson. Thank you so much for visiting our site. We've been married and working together daily for over 30 years!


We know the ups and downs of relationships from our personal and professional experience. We have learned, practiced and taught others the tools and strategies that have worked to help couples like you to have happy and healthy relationships.


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The whole world was watching recently when Tiger Woods stood before the television cameras and admitted that he had been cheating on his wife. He asked for forgiveness and stated that he was being treated in a sex addiction facility to address his problem.

His admission has prompted a considerable debate among mental health professionals and the public at large as to whether or not there is such a thing as a “sex addiction.” And what we have to say on this issue is not intended to end that debate. The bottom line truth is for most spouses who have been cheated on, it doesn’t make any difference whether it’s an addiction or not. Calling it an “addiction” does not take away the unbearable pain of an unfaithful partner.

The question a lot of people would ask cheaters is, “if you’re the kind of person who likes ‘sleeping around,’ then why say that you’re committed to one person when you’re not or even get married?” If you’re not going to honor your commitment to remain sexually faithful then just remain single. Spare any potential partner the emotional pain of your cheating or risking exposing them to various venereal diseases—some of which are life threatening.

Our recommendation is that both partners honor their commitment to being faithful. If there is a problem in the relationship, get help to fix the problem. We invite you to our web site www.couplestransformations.com to find helpful information and resources.

To Your Relationship Success,

Jesse and Melva

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Valentine’s Day for Women: Show Him Love and Appreciation

If you didn’t read Jesse’s Part One Valentine’s Day Message to Men, read it first because what I have to share with the ladies reading this will make more sense. Yes, ladies, Valentine’s Day is for your man too! Let’s look that same couple Jesse wrote about in Part One. Even though we [...]

Valentine’s for Men: Showing Her Love and Appreciation

Melva and I recently met and have gotten to know a really fine young man. He and his wife are celebrating their 10 year anniversary on Valentine’s Day. Man, he’s gone all out. He’s given her a few hundred dollars for a new outfit; paid for her appointment with her hairdresser for [...]

New Years Resolutions To Help Improve Your Marriage

It’s customary for many people to make resolutions for the New Year. You’ve probably already got a pretty long list of things you want to change. As you are considering things you’d like to change in 2010, we’d like to propose that you include improving your marriage among your resolutions. And to enable [...]

What Should I Do If My Marriage Looks As Though It’s Not Going To Make It?

It’s not unusual for couples who come to us for counseling to question whether or not they can preserve their marriages. It’s understandable when you consider the fact that they have likely been struggling for years in their marriages. Marriage counseling is often their last chance to turn things around.
If a partner is not [...]